my hair feels moisturized all day, and feels great until night/next day. it then starts to feel as dry as straw. so i almost feel like i have to cowash to keep it moisturized. is this normal?
My hair is like this too, esp. when I used to wear it out in its natural state. Some hair is just really porous and loses moisture quickly. A few things I've found that help:
1. Moisturizing between washes with a
good butter-type moisturizer. I like Carol's Daughter Healthy Hair Butter. I had to try quite a few before finding one that leaves my hair moisturized, so you may have to, too.
2.
Flexi-rod-setting my hair with a good leave-in. For some reason my hair gets much drier if I leave it totally free than if I set it. I use Shea Moisture Restorative Conditioner and Sebastian Potion 9 as leave-ins.
3. Also, try some
different leave-in conditioners if your hair is getting really dry. It took me a while to find one that was moisturizing enough.
4. Getting a
shower head filter! I kid you not, the difference in my hair and skin was noticeable the first time I used it -- much softer and much less dry. My tap water in LA is heavily chlorinated, and pretty much any municipal water supply has chlorine and other junk that can make your hair dry. I ordered the Sprite High-Output chlorine filter and shower head from Amazon, and have been very happy with it.
Hope this helps! Keep trying and you'll eventually find what works.