Irresistible
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Re: Don\'t Shoot Me Anyone...
ms_kenesha, all of your thoughts and feelings are totally natural, i think every natural has experience similar thoughts/feelings at some point...
i mean i still trip off the "break neck syndrome" men develop when i have my hair down (pressed) and the minimal looks while its in a pony tail or bun (which is most of the time)
the one thing that is gonna take care of this is time and just wait till your hair grows some more, you wont even consider putting a relaxer in it then(at least i doubt it). ...and yes, we all do it, we take other things goin on in our lives out on our hair, its the straw that breaks the camels back when other things are goin on and on top of that we have issues with our hair....just remember, this too shall pass..take it one day at a time.
I wish i had more answers for you, but i too sometimes still feel more attractive (and men act like it too) when my hair is down and pressed......but i still dont do it all the time and i still love my natural hair....ive just found my own happy medium that works for me.....you will too for yourself, in time. The key is giving it time.
all the poof and breaking necks in the world wont make me relax my hair, but that steadfastness came only with time. its no longer even a possible consideration for me , ever.
ms_kenesha, all of your thoughts and feelings are totally natural, i think every natural has experience similar thoughts/feelings at some point...
i mean i still trip off the "break neck syndrome" men develop when i have my hair down (pressed) and the minimal looks while its in a pony tail or bun (which is most of the time)
the one thing that is gonna take care of this is time and just wait till your hair grows some more, you wont even consider putting a relaxer in it then(at least i doubt it). ...and yes, we all do it, we take other things goin on in our lives out on our hair, its the straw that breaks the camels back when other things are goin on and on top of that we have issues with our hair....just remember, this too shall pass..take it one day at a time.
I wish i had more answers for you, but i too sometimes still feel more attractive (and men act like it too) when my hair is down and pressed......but i still dont do it all the time and i still love my natural hair....ive just found my own happy medium that works for me.....you will too for yourself, in time. The key is giving it time.
all the poof and breaking necks in the world wont make me relax my hair, but that steadfastness came only with time. its no longer even a possible consideration for me , ever.