I am two years natural and a few months ago I let go of my micro braids and headed back to the shop for my bi weekly press and curl. My goal is to grow my hair back to it’s original thick texture and as long as possible. But I’m confused because it seems to me that most, not all, of they women on every hair board I belong to with super long hair has a relaxer. Do you think having a relaxer helps you reach longer lengths?