Chrissmiss
New Member
Yeah, relaxers really did a number on my hair-- and it was almost always the back left side that I would lose. However, now I don't have a relaxer at all...so there is something more going on.
I think its like @hola_lo2002 said, I was too harsh w/my hair -rough detangling/manipulating, tight hair clips/holders always near that spot at the crown, lack of moisture. Im working on a moiisture routine to conquer this. Hola_lo2002, what is your moissture regimen like, and thanks for sharing your story shows there is hope! Are u relaxed or natural?
@Chrissmiss As for your question, the difference is - with filling in, you just don't cut the hair at all. With the other options, you can chop to the length where your thickness is --all one blunt length; or you can slowly trim the longer hair as short spot grows in.
Ok yea I think that is the best way to go. I am very careful with manipulation now. I only use a wide tooth comb on my hair except on wash day when I use my denman to detangle small sections b4 I blow dry. This is the first time that I have had a regimen that I can consistantly stick with because I only mess with my hair every 2 weeks instead of every 5,7, or 10 days. I now spend 6 hours on my hair a month instead of 10-12 hours. When I have to do too much too often I start slacking on important things like DCing and being gentlew/ my hair. Also I work with my hair in 5 sections on wash day so I am able to focus on and be gentle with each part of my hair instead of trying to get through it all at once. My routine has been working great so far but we'll see how it goes long term.