Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
to be romantic, to treat you like a queen, to make you feel special? If so does he do it or continues to take you for granted. The reason for this question is because I feel like the man I am seeing now, I have to constantly tell him to be romantic and make me feel special. We had a long conversation about that last night and he said he understood so today he called several times to see how I was doing, just to show he cares. Well this is not the first time I had to call him out and say I want more attention. He always complies and is good for like a couple of weeks then goes back to his same old self,it is frustrating. So yesterday I told him if he does not act right I will find someone else that will treat me better. I know it probably sounds needy but what women does not want to feel like important to the man she is with. My ex use to spoil me like crazy and he was so romantic and sweet so I want to continue to be treated like that. I am trying to figure out should I just walk away or work with him and hope he changes. He has a really nonchallant attitude and likes affection to be given to him but neglects to give it back. I don't know what is going on in his head. Has anyone had a man they had to pretty much mold into the type of man they felt they deserved. I know some men cannot change but others are willing to work with you or meet you half way.