Who has met an eligible guy, slept with him on the first date and is now happily married to that same guy?
Men marry women that they sleep with on the first date all the time. Is there a specific reason why this wouldn't apply to black women? If a guy likes you, he likes you. He can have all of the rules in the world for how he expects a woman to behave, but when he likes a woman all of those rules go out the window if necessary. The reason why I recommend that women not have sex with a man on the first date isn't because of him, it's for her protection because she has no idea whether or not he likes her. If you like him that's just a gamble that may not be worth the heartache. However, there have been plenty of women who have played those odds and still won. I don't think it works any differently for black women. Is there some different standard that we are held to?
Men marry women that they sleep with on the first date all the time. Is there a specific reason why this wouldn't apply to black women? If a guy likes you, he likes you. He can have all of the rules in the world for how he expects a woman to behave, but when he likes a woman all of those rules go out the window if necessary. The reason why I recommend that women not have sex with a man on the first date isn't because of him, it's for her protection because she has no idea whether or not he likes her. If you like him that's just a gamble that may not be worth the heartache. However, there have been plenty of women who have played those odds and still won. I don't think it works any differently for black women. Is there some different standard that we are held to?
Yep. Several. One chick even tried to get a date while on the date with him and he still married her.