Prettymetty
Natural/4b/medium-coarse
I shampoo every 2-3 weeks. Low manipulation is the key to retaining length for me.
I'm on water only again, I'm on my 3rd month and loving it so far. I will clarify this weekend with an herbal powder or clay. I use a little Shea butter on the last bit on my hair and do not add anymore until I've washed again. I have to wash my hair at least 1x a week ideally. I notice that I get some tangles between wash days, but with water only most of them are detangled easily under running water, I don't use a comb and my coils clump, even my tighter patches clump more and more over time. I'm mbl probably because I haven't been babying my ends and I cut/trim at will. Since it's hot as ever, I've been spraying my hair with water whenever I pull it back into a puff between wash days.
Shampoo can be alright, depending on how soft it is if that makes sense, I personally have not cowashed for years because my scalp thrives on being pretty clean. I was previously shampooing my scalp and the length of my hair to remove old butter/oil and my hair was doing quite well with that. I like water only because it's a faster wash process for me.