Okay so at my job, I work every other weekend. I switched to this weekend so I Can work with the people I hang out with the most, I'll call them B (a female) and J (who is male). I am also training someone, who I'll refer to as C.
A couple weeks ago, C brought up to me that I look weird when I sip on a straw (I was drinking from a carton of juice), we laugh about it for a second and it's over, I shrug it off (but I became more conscious of the way I sip from a straw ).
So today B, J, C, and I are all having fun at work chatting and whatnot. All of a sudden C brings up the way I sip from a straw again with a demonstration (sorry, the demo is not available with this thread), everyone laughs, including me. But C and I only laugh for a second and move on, but B and J laugh EXTREMELY hard for over 2 minutes. I start to get annoyed and make a comment that it is not that funny, but they continue to laugh anyway. So I just turn away and get back to my work. J comes over to me and apologizes and asks if I am mad. I tell him that I am just annoyed by the way they had reacted and that I felt it was childish, but I'd get over it.
So fast forward a few hours, everything is cool and we're all talking because we have some down time. C brings up the joke again and B and J start laughing EXTREMELY hard again. I am looking at them with a straight face and J starts apologizing as he is laughing and B just does not care and keeps laughing.
So I say 'You both need to stop, it is not that funny and I find it disrespectful that you are laughing that hard when you know I already got annoyed the first time. You're starting to piss me off.' J stopped laughing and apologized, but B kept laughing, so I just got up and went back to my desk and didn't talk to her for the remainder of the shift. J came over and apologized again and said 'I'm sorry for laughing, I would be mad if someone did that to me, it was wrong.' I just said 'yea it was' and he asked how long am I usually mad at people...I told him 'I'm not mad long, but it does affect how I look at them.'
So my whole issue is the fact they felt it was THAT funny to laugh that long at my expense, even after knowing it upset me. My thought process is that if they can laugh that hard to my face off of something someone said about me, who knows what they're doing behind my back. B and J are people I considered friends outside of work, C not so much. So, in your opinion, did I overreact?
All this over the way I drink my juice, it feels so silly
*sorry for the typos and grammatical errors
A couple weeks ago, C brought up to me that I look weird when I sip on a straw (I was drinking from a carton of juice), we laugh about it for a second and it's over, I shrug it off (but I became more conscious of the way I sip from a straw ).
So today B, J, C, and I are all having fun at work chatting and whatnot. All of a sudden C brings up the way I sip from a straw again with a demonstration (sorry, the demo is not available with this thread), everyone laughs, including me. But C and I only laugh for a second and move on, but B and J laugh EXTREMELY hard for over 2 minutes. I start to get annoyed and make a comment that it is not that funny, but they continue to laugh anyway. So I just turn away and get back to my work. J comes over to me and apologizes and asks if I am mad. I tell him that I am just annoyed by the way they had reacted and that I felt it was childish, but I'd get over it.
So fast forward a few hours, everything is cool and we're all talking because we have some down time. C brings up the joke again and B and J start laughing EXTREMELY hard again. I am looking at them with a straight face and J starts apologizing as he is laughing and B just does not care and keeps laughing.
So I say 'You both need to stop, it is not that funny and I find it disrespectful that you are laughing that hard when you know I already got annoyed the first time. You're starting to piss me off.' J stopped laughing and apologized, but B kept laughing, so I just got up and went back to my desk and didn't talk to her for the remainder of the shift. J came over and apologized again and said 'I'm sorry for laughing, I would be mad if someone did that to me, it was wrong.' I just said 'yea it was' and he asked how long am I usually mad at people...I told him 'I'm not mad long, but it does affect how I look at them.'
So my whole issue is the fact they felt it was THAT funny to laugh that long at my expense, even after knowing it upset me. My thought process is that if they can laugh that hard to my face off of something someone said about me, who knows what they're doing behind my back. B and J are people I considered friends outside of work, C not so much. So, in your opinion, did I overreact?
All this over the way I drink my juice, it feels so silly
*sorry for the typos and grammatical errors