I agree, one of my post was deleted not to long ago and I'd like to get a PM if it's not to much to ask. I think you'll cut down on the hassle of deleting post if you simply tell why you deleted them so if it's something we're saying we won't do it again.
Also, I wouldn't ask for this if it was laid out in the rules or something. I checked the rules of the forum and I didn't violate anything.