Sometimes coming on to LHCF is like going back in time to Junior High. The mentality of some women in here is downright juvenile at best. Between the cattiness, cliques, name calling and constant nitpicking of minutia, I sometimes find it hard to believe that ANYONE likes it here. But it does have a wealth if terrific info about hair. I wouldn't allow silliness to push me away but do what is comfortable for you.