ellennicole
New Member
I have a question for you ladies. I have recently met an amazing man..... If any of you read my post early this summer, I really was not looking to meet anyone. I have never in my life been able to converse and be myself completely as I have with this person. If I had a list of all of the qualities I wanted in a man (none of them superficial) he DEFINITELY HAS THEM.
I never thought I would meet someone so much like myself, someone so passionate about his beliefs about life. I've NEVER had this much in common with a man before. I can definitely see myself with him long term and he's expressed the same to me....
THE PROBLEM
He told me that he's facing a terminal illness (stomach cancer). He didn't tell me this initially, and I understand that to a point, but right now I really dont know how to feel. I want to continue to get to know him (he has good and bad days), but I am not sure what the future holds for him healthwise. (He's 37).
THE QUESTION
I really am not sure how to go about this anymore. I want to continue to get to know him, but I am not open to completely falling for him for fear that he may not be here. A part of me his angry that after 34 years, I've finally met a man that I can truly vibe with on so many levels... only to learn that he's ill.... He keeps talking about taking a trip next summer to Jamaica.... I am excited, but part of me doesn't/cant' take it too seriiously. I told him that I just wanted to focus on the here and now and not think too much about the future..
Okay, there really wasn't a question, I just needed to express... and get some feedback...
I never thought I would meet someone so much like myself, someone so passionate about his beliefs about life. I've NEVER had this much in common with a man before. I can definitely see myself with him long term and he's expressed the same to me....
THE PROBLEM
He told me that he's facing a terminal illness (stomach cancer). He didn't tell me this initially, and I understand that to a point, but right now I really dont know how to feel. I want to continue to get to know him (he has good and bad days), but I am not sure what the future holds for him healthwise. (He's 37).
THE QUESTION
I really am not sure how to go about this anymore. I want to continue to get to know him, but I am not open to completely falling for him for fear that he may not be here. A part of me his angry that after 34 years, I've finally met a man that I can truly vibe with on so many levels... only to learn that he's ill.... He keeps talking about taking a trip next summer to Jamaica.... I am excited, but part of me doesn't/cant' take it too seriiously. I told him that I just wanted to focus on the here and now and not think too much about the future..
Okay, there really wasn't a question, I just needed to express... and get some feedback...