LovinLocks
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Daddy's Baby
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blaqueskimo
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Hmm IMO if a man has kids and you knew that when you started dating, then he doesn't get a "honeymoon " away from his kids.They should be allowed to visit their dad at any time. I also agree with NOE, he should have a two bedroom so his child is comfy when she visits.
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NOEChic
I may not always be right, but I'm never wrong.
especially since if they were her kids, they would have been picked up on the way from the airport..
and i say honeymoon, ONLY if they went out of town
ladysaraii
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I don't know but a 2 adults, 1 kid, and 1 bedroom sounds like an excellent time for me to take a vacation
NOEChic
I may not always be right, but I'm never wrong.
im one adult and i cant stay in a 1 bdrm...i had to get a 2 bdrm apt and a 2nd job to afford it..
im bout to move into a dorm room and am going to DIE
LovinLocks
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im one adult and i cant stay in a 1 bdrm...i had to get a 2 bdrm apt and a 2nd job to afford it..
im bout to move into a dorm room and am going to DIE
Ahh haaa; you going to school? I'll bet you're doing it for some positive reason though. Continue to think about the end of it when you rolling like you roll.
NOEChic
I may not always be right, but I'm never wrong.
no im mil, im moving to korea and you stay in a dorm roomAhh haaa; you going to school? I'll bet you're doing it for some positive reason though. Continue to think about the end of it when you rolling like you roll.
LovinLocks
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Aww maan. I hope you can keep up with us here. Best to you! Hugzz, LL
NOEChic
I may not always be right, but I'm never wrong.
i'll be able to get on, but i probably wont get on as much as i will be traveling seeing korea, china and tokyo
MissYocairis
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OP, think if it this way...DD won't be staying permanently (for now)...just suck it up and have fun with the two of them for Spring Break. It is only temporary. And, yes, as the other posters have stated, when you marry a man with children...there is no honeymoon...and the same would hold true if you were the one with children and he wasn't...don't stress over it. Just enjoy watching the two of them and take time to look at her and focus on developing a friendship with her while she's in town.
DragonPearl
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Unless you have full custody of the child, you're allowed to have a honeymoon and imo, it can be as long as a normal couple's honeymoon. Don't allow yourself to be guilt tripped about that. The 11 year old is not going to be scarred for life because daddy was on a 2-week or 3 week honeymoon and she couldn't see him.
As far as 1 bedroom issue, ideally, yes, the daughter should have her own room, but in these economic times, sometimes 1 bedroom is all a couple can afford. We don't know your financial situation. Hopefully in the future, you will be able to move to larger quarters...
While your stepdaughter is there, don't think of her as a rival, let her spend time with her dad, don't hog him, you'll have plenty of him after she is gone. Get to know her and do your best to make her feel at home.
As far as 1 bedroom issue, ideally, yes, the daughter should have her own room, but in these economic times, sometimes 1 bedroom is all a couple can afford. We don't know your financial situation. Hopefully in the future, you will be able to move to larger quarters...
While your stepdaughter is there, don't think of her as a rival, let her spend time with her dad, don't hog him, you'll have plenty of him after she is gone. Get to know her and do your best to make her feel at home.
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michelle81
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I don't think the OP meant a literal honeymoon. I think she meant just the two of them enjoying each other and their marriage for a set period of time before his daughter comes for overnight visits.
It would be the same answer if the daughter was theirs together and they just got married. Maybe one or two weeks if they had gone somewhere then they come right back to being parents the day they get off the plane.
LovinLocks
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Yessss, thank you for allowing a sistah to exhale.
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DragonPearl
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I understand.
I don't know how often the daughter is coming over, but if she is there let's say 2 weekends out of the month, or only on special occasions like Spring Breaks, how reasonable is it to demand that the father allocate a room in the apartment that's going to be empty most of the time? My son spend most of his time with us, and we wouldn't dare demand of his mom that she reserves a room for him at her place that he only gets to occupy 4 days a month.
LovinLocks
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If he is scraping by on half a disability check then he was in arrearage (sp) because if he was current they can only legally take up to 20%. You can PM me and I can give you the rundown.
Bunny77
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Girrl, don't ask, LOL. PM me.
Oh, umm, but wait, yaw'll actually pay attention to me???? :eye: You wasn't supposed to remember the other ****!!!!!!!
LHCF remembers EVERYTHING!!!!
(Low key, I was wondering the same thing that Amcd wrote though...
):eye: You wasn't supposed to remember the other ****!!!!!!!
LOL!!! 
Sorry for that. Hope all is well with you two!
