ok ladies, here is the verdict... i think that the crunchy came from protien (good call MizaniMami)and the brittleness came from the spritz the stylist used(which is kryptonite to my hair
) i back tracked and remembered that i put profectiv healthy ends on my hair as a pre treatment and redken anti snap. i didn't realize that profectiv healthy ends has protien (wheat germ and keratin) it is ok to apply protien before a relaxer right?
erplexed but anyhoo, i haven't had that much breakage( i was just wiggin' out because my hair was soooo hard, i've never experienced that
) and after my co wash it is softer and shiny. it actually feels strong(goooo protien
) so i will continue with moisture, moisture, moisture. i used pantene relaxed and natural breakage defense to co-wash and aveda sapp moss conditioner as a deep conditoner and it made me wanna sing.... loooove, never knew what i was miss-ing, but i knew once i start rin-sing...
once again, thanks for all the advice girls