whitneysimone
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I just thought I would share my experience I have with crazy women when it comes to hair.
Example 1:
I used to work with this woman who had HORRIBLE hair. She had breakage everywhere, she kept it in a TIGHT ponytail that had made her hairline completly bald about two inches in from where it should be all around temples, forehead, nape and everything. I never knew she had issues until she started dropping comments about how perfect I was
erplexed She would comment that I have the perfect name, the perfect this, the perfect that (mind you, I am a confident young woman, but I also find humility in KNOWING that I am FAR from perfect). Anyhoo one day I wore my hair down, she see's me and runs her hands through my hair, I feel her fingers on my scalp (im assuming she was looking for tracks, who knows, like i said she has issues)...next thing I know she tells me, and I quote, "one day im gonna cut your hair off and glue it on my head." 
so at this point I take about 3 steps back, give a "you need help" look and and continue with my business. So little comments like this continue on for some time, i usually brushed it off with a bleek smile or something. Finally, one day we were working in the same cubicle together, she see's me, approaches me and says "you're soo cute I just wanna cut your face off and sew it on mines." I don't know if im supposed to take this as a complement or be completly terrified. i choose the latter... After that comment I kind of stayed away from her and kept my distance. People would tell me she has self-esteem issues and thats why she says and does the things she does. erplexed
Anyhoo so that is one of my experiences. Has anyone else been victim of women with self-esteem issues or who just had plain ole issues and said some off the wall borderline creepy things when it came to you or your hair????
Example 1:
I used to work with this woman who had HORRIBLE hair. She had breakage everywhere, she kept it in a TIGHT ponytail that had made her hairline completly bald about two inches in from where it should be all around temples, forehead, nape and everything. I never knew she had issues until she started dropping comments about how perfect I was
erplexed She would comment that I have the perfect name, the perfect this, the perfect that (mind you, I am a confident young woman, but I also find humility in KNOWING that I am FAR from perfect). Anyhoo one day I wore my hair down, she see's me and runs her hands through my hair, I feel her fingers on my scalp (im assuming she was looking for tracks, who knows, like i said she has issues)...next thing I know she tells me, and I quote, "one day im gonna cut your hair off and glue it on my head." so at this point I take about 3 steps back, give a "you need help" look and and continue with my business. So little comments like this continue on for some time, i usually brushed it off with a bleek smile or something. Finally, one day we were working in the same cubicle together, she see's me, approaches me and says "you're soo cute I just wanna cut your face off and sew it on mines." I don't know if im supposed to take this as a complement or be completly terrified. i choose the latter... After that comment I kind of stayed away from her and kept my distance. People would tell me she has self-esteem issues and thats why she says and does the things she does. erplexed Anyhoo so that is one of my experiences. Has anyone else been victim of women with self-esteem issues or who just had plain ole issues and said some off the wall borderline creepy things when it came to you or your hair????
lol: ) i just think she seriously see's features in others that in a perfect world she would love to have for herself, which in reality is a natural "grass is greener.." concept but i've never seen it played out so for real before. 
I'd stay away from her as much as possible.
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