renren
New Member
I have found that as I get older I am putting more and more importance on having meaningful conversation with men. Although im a pretty shy person.. I have been really been enjoying engaging men in conversation. It doesnt always have to be 'deep' but I think its very important to get past the basic day-to-day talk about your day and really get down to sharing ideas, opinions, beliefs etc. Actually a man that can engage my mind is becoming a bit of a turn on for me...LOL
In the past I must say that I have never really paid attention to conversation much.... we always did stuff like movies, hanging out in groups etc that never really required/allowed for much meaningful conversation. Needless to say... I have had some very shallow rships.
We all know that it is important to see if a mans actions matches his words soo then it must be important to listen to what he has to say to begin with right?
I am at the point in my life right now where I refuse to get into a serious rship/marriage just for the sake of it. I want someone that I can have great conversation with and engage them on a mental,emotional and spiritual level.
How do you ladies feel? Have you been paying attention to the conversation you have with men? Is it important to you in a rship? Is a man that can engage you mind a turn on for you?
In the past I must say that I have never really paid attention to conversation much.... we always did stuff like movies, hanging out in groups etc that never really required/allowed for much meaningful conversation. Needless to say... I have had some very shallow rships.
We all know that it is important to see if a mans actions matches his words soo then it must be important to listen to what he has to say to begin with right?
I am at the point in my life right now where I refuse to get into a serious rship/marriage just for the sake of it. I want someone that I can have great conversation with and engage them on a mental,emotional and spiritual level.
How do you ladies feel? Have you been paying attention to the conversation you have with men? Is it important to you in a rship? Is a man that can engage you mind a turn on for you?