I am going to use a color rinse for the first time (also the first time i've colored my hair ever) and I am wondering what order to I apply products. The directions say just to shampoo then add rinse, but am I suppose to add conditioner, and if so before or after I add the rinse? Also I just relaxed my hair, how long should I wait to do an Aphogee treatment? Should I do it before or after I add the color? TIA