Ok so here is my issue: I had a love/hate relationship with henna, finally got my issues fixed( I was using too much ACV and not using enough conditioner after the fact). Anyway, I wanted my hair red and plan to leave it red for some years to come. My problem is that my hair is naturally black, so to get the color I want from henna I have to lighten my hair first. So I am wondering if I should just stop doing this and just start getting my hair colored at the salon? I know both are damaging. I tought the henna route was less damaging but I'm not sure, since I still have to keep lifting my natural hair color. Also, now I am having problems with using any kind of gel, leave-in, etc in my hair. It just falls limp and I lose any curl pattern when I apply any of these products. I can have curls and once I apply any product to my hair it just goes straight. I'm wondering if the henna is making my hair to heavy. What should I do?