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I just had a 4.5 hour closure conversation w/my ex-SO of 2.5 years. I feel 30% drained, 20% satisfied, 15% uncertain, 10% doubtful, 10% hopeful and another 15% confused.
I usually do the recap of went wrong w/an ex years after the relationship ends but in this relationship we were considering marriage and we are really close w/each other families so it's been a pretty tough split so I decided to have the conversation sooner.
Overall, do you believe these conversations are useful?
Sad thing is you never know how liberated you'll feel after these convos or if you will heal properly w/o having closure. This wasn't a good look for me as we have been broken up for about a month and I was doing fine & now I feel as though I'm at day one.
thoughts...
I usually do the recap of went wrong w/an ex years after the relationship ends but in this relationship we were considering marriage and we are really close w/each other families so it's been a pretty tough split so I decided to have the conversation sooner.
Overall, do you believe these conversations are useful?
Sad thing is you never know how liberated you'll feel after these convos or if you will heal properly w/o having closure. This wasn't a good look for me as we have been broken up for about a month and I was doing fine & now I feel as though I'm at day one.
thoughts...