zzirvingj
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I hope I don't offend anyone with this topic but I thought it could end up being an insightful thread.
I'd like to hear from those women who were abused during their childhood and/or teenage years, particularly if it was by a parent or close family member. Whether it be physically, sexually, emotionally, verbally, or via neglect, we all know that abuse can have a major impact on a person's quality of life and their relationships.
This thread was inspired by the 'act like a goddess get treated like one' thread. It is empowering to read stories from women who were raised as princesses and how such treatment impacted them positively in the dating world/when choosing a mate, etc. I thought it would also be empowering to hear from those women who were not treated that way in childhood, realized the negative impact it was having on them, and managed to turn it all around.
At one point did you realize the negative impact(s) former abuse was having on you and your relationships with men?
What did you do to improve your self esteem and establish a higher sense of self worth?
What are some things you do or don't do now as a result (for example, things you now see as dispectful that you don't allow in your life)?
I'd love to hear from those who wouldn't mind sharing how they turned things around for themselves, and are now reaping the benefits of happier, healthier relationships in their lives.
I'd like to hear from those women who were abused during their childhood and/or teenage years, particularly if it was by a parent or close family member. Whether it be physically, sexually, emotionally, verbally, or via neglect, we all know that abuse can have a major impact on a person's quality of life and their relationships.
This thread was inspired by the 'act like a goddess get treated like one' thread. It is empowering to read stories from women who were raised as princesses and how such treatment impacted them positively in the dating world/when choosing a mate, etc. I thought it would also be empowering to hear from those women who were not treated that way in childhood, realized the negative impact it was having on them, and managed to turn it all around.
At one point did you realize the negative impact(s) former abuse was having on you and your relationships with men?
What did you do to improve your self esteem and establish a higher sense of self worth?
What are some things you do or don't do now as a result (for example, things you now see as dispectful that you don't allow in your life)?
I'd love to hear from those who wouldn't mind sharing how they turned things around for themselves, and are now reaping the benefits of happier, healthier relationships in their lives.