Glamorous_chic
Well-Known Member
well, after reflecting on this past weekend's fallout (i wrote a thread about it) and reading some of the threads on here, i think i'm gonna read wmlb and the rules, and give it a try. i realize that i'm too nice, too available, and can get attached easily to someone i really really like. for those i don't like or have no connection with, i really could care less. i have a naturally caring nature, but i realize that when it comes to men, they will take advantage or think they just run all over you. i used to be against "game" playing. i used to would answer phone calls, return text msgs and phone calls, and didn't realize that sometimes i was the one "chasing" after a while. i'd initiate phone calls and try to set up dates (mainly out of boredom, which is why i really have to keep myself occupied ).
well, not anymore. when i look at my friends who seem to have endless s/o, boyfriends, dates, or even men who want to marry them, i see that they are naturally following "the rules". i love my friends dearly, but the way they treat some of these, men, i don't know why they stick around. yet they do, and they want them even more. they never answer their phone, always have plans (so get in where you fit in lolol) and when the guy finally is able to get in touch with them, they don't act overly eager to speak to them. i obviouslly need to change my approach, b/c being nice and sweet is obviouslly not the way to go. i've never been one to date "thugs" or the bad boy, but i seem to always end up with jerks and dead end relationship with emotionally unavailable men. after writing this long post, i'm realizing that this was more of a vent thread. lolol but what happend to you ladies to make you realize that you had to change up your dating/relationship habits?
well, not anymore. when i look at my friends who seem to have endless s/o, boyfriends, dates, or even men who want to marry them, i see that they are naturally following "the rules". i love my friends dearly, but the way they treat some of these, men, i don't know why they stick around. yet they do, and they want them even more. they never answer their phone, always have plans (so get in where you fit in lolol) and when the guy finally is able to get in touch with them, they don't act overly eager to speak to them. i obviouslly need to change my approach, b/c being nice and sweet is obviouslly not the way to go. i've never been one to date "thugs" or the bad boy, but i seem to always end up with jerks and dead end relationship with emotionally unavailable men. after writing this long post, i'm realizing that this was more of a vent thread. lolol but what happend to you ladies to make you realize that you had to change up your dating/relationship habits?