Didn't watch it all, but why are we f*ing at three when I need to make his sammich at 4AM?
But, like many have pointed out on FB, where is your ring? Why are you a stay at home girlfriend? Umm, why have you limit your options to shacking up with one guy without any promises just to have your bills paid. For how long? Because while you are letting him run around on the weekends with "his boys," he could very well be exploring his options as you sit at home making sammiches. You are his surrogate mother at this point.
If you don't think men like touch, then you don't know men. Men do like to cuddle. The first thing my FH does when he comes in my house is gives me the biggest hug then he lays up under me on the couch. Then he starts invading my spatial needs lol. But that dependent on many factors. One, their love language and, two, many of OUR men don't receive touch as children, especially those growing up in questionable communities, in efforts to make them hard.I worked with at risk children and you don't even know what a hug or dap means to these boys and girls. That is why it is important for both parents to hug their children and give them affirmations everyday. Even in blended families, my FH gives my son dap and hugs. It is acknowledgement that we are all about to coexist and I give his girls hugs, no one is excluded from this new dynamic. Touch is important and you would want a mate that knows that or can be easily guided towards touch.