I have two children (a newborn and a 3-year-old) and a husband, work full time (40+ hrs a week, but I'm on maternity leave right now), and I'm thinking about going back to school. When I first went natural, I used to wonder the same thing about keeping it up with so many priorities, but after almost 2 years natural, my hair routine is very simplistic. I co-wash about twice a week. During one of those wash days, I fit in a detangle/deep condition session. I usually do that while the kids are napping or right after I tuck them into bed. Then, I bun it up. Sometimes, I'll do twists. I used to wear a puff sometimes, but I'm trying to keep my hair in more protective styles this year. I find the simpler my routine, the easier it is.