Hi ladies
not logged on for a while, been doing quite well and lurking about every now and then.
ok, my hair is cbl, 6 wpr and overall quite healthy. I deep condition weekly and now that Im 6 wp I am co washing daily to keep in moisturised and manageable. air dry and hair accessories doing me well, or so i THOUGHT!!
Went out last night and I thought I looked pretty cute, but came across some ladies who have previously laughted at lhcf. now their hair aint nothing to write home about, however I just dont feel preened on this regimen and their comments last night really hurt, such as 'you should see my stylist, she may be able to do something for you' 'you'd look better if you did your hair'...
I dont straighten my hair unless its a really special occasion or when i relax to measure length and I air dry as much as poss and my hair is growing , but I guess my question is , how do I get my hair to look 'done' without undoing my hard work?
Im stretching now, 1 to give my hair a break and 2 as a self relaxer i simply cannot be bothered to relax....2 young kids on school holidays i just dont have time!!!!
I know this post is all over the place, Im wondering if i should just wig it, i feel scuzzy and unattractive, thats the truth. man I have issues! Ill stick on a phony tomorrow, maybe that will help. What do you think? should I just go back to straightening daily and keep my hair short.....
h
ANY Guidance APPRECIATED
not logged on for a while, been doing quite well and lurking about every now and then.
ok, my hair is cbl, 6 wpr and overall quite healthy. I deep condition weekly and now that Im 6 wp I am co washing daily to keep in moisturised and manageable. air dry and hair accessories doing me well, or so i THOUGHT!!
Went out last night and I thought I looked pretty cute, but came across some ladies who have previously laughted at lhcf. now their hair aint nothing to write home about, however I just dont feel preened on this regimen and their comments last night really hurt, such as 'you should see my stylist, she may be able to do something for you' 'you'd look better if you did your hair'...
I dont straighten my hair unless its a really special occasion or when i relax to measure length and I air dry as much as poss and my hair is growing , but I guess my question is , how do I get my hair to look 'done' without undoing my hard work?
Im stretching now, 1 to give my hair a break and 2 as a self relaxer i simply cannot be bothered to relax....2 young kids on school holidays i just dont have time!!!!
I know this post is all over the place, Im wondering if i should just wig it, i feel scuzzy and unattractive, thats the truth. man I have issues! Ill stick on a phony tomorrow, maybe that will help. What do you think? should I just go back to straightening daily and keep my hair short.....
h
ANY Guidance APPRECIATED