I agree about the Black and Sassy. The only thing with it is, it has a tendency to flake. This isn't usually a problem with me though, because when I am natural, I usually rinse my hair almost everyday anyway.
The next product I am going to try for this is something my stepdaughter has been using that gives her lots of curl definition and tons of shine. The product is Proclaim gel. It is heavy, clear, and alcohol-free.
I never actually used SSLD, but I wonder if Salon Selectives would be willing to reproduce it and market it as more of an ethnic hair product. They would be missing out out on lots of money, and us on a fabulous product.