I just purchased Vitale Revive Positive Conditioner to use post relaxer and pre neutralizing. Question: DO YOU WASH THIS STUFF OUT? The directions on the bottle would seem to indicate no -- "apply Revive to hair. Wait 5 mins., shampoo 2x etc." But I think that Southerngirl and others who use this product actually rinse it out BEFORE shampooing w/ neutralizer (? right??) I'm concerned because when I did a search, I came across an old thread where someone used it on her daughter's hair after following the bottle's no-rinse directions resulting in major breakage/fall-out. Help! Confused and trying to do this right -- after 6 long years of weaving and low manipulation, I don't want to mess up now. I did Aphogee 2 step last light in prep for touchup/texlax underprocess correction next week. Need advice ASAP. Thanks. (PS -- been lurking for 10 years -- first post so you know I'm a little stressed over this