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RachiQue said:Hey!
I just wanted to know who on the board was a 3a/b/c and what your regime is are you natural or relaxed...you know the usual questions.
I know I'm not the only one here...cmon where are ya?
lol
Uzz
DDtexlaxd said:I don't want to tell u what to do w/ your hair, but a texturizer will not cure shrinkage. In the case of my shrinkage, it only lessened it a little.I wish u success in your journey.
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SilkyandSmooth said:Really? Wow. I was hoping that texturizing would somewhat help with the shrinkage. I would love to wear my hair out but I'm not a fan of the big look. The 3b parts of my hair would behave. It's the 3c parts I'm worried about. I keep going back and forth with my decision. I'm not 100% sold on putting chemicals back in my hair again. I'm scared to death of losing my hair. I don't want to lose my curls either. No one in my immediate circle wants me to texturize either. I keep getting the "why do you want to put that stuff in your hair again" questions.![]()
Hey MEIAmeia said:Hey!
I just wanted to know who on the board was a 3a/b/c and what your
HI RACHI QUE!
I was reading you wanted a relaxer- im sure you've probably already gotten this warning, but please be careful! i have 3c hair and it took me practically from 16 years old to 20 years old that relaxers are trouble...unless youre ENTIRELY sure you can do it/find a place that can process it without over or under processing i DONT recommend getting a relaxer...im just now growing out the years of bad relaxed hair and its going to take me another 2-3 years to get to mid back natural...its crazy...but if someone told me or my grandma that when i was younger i might've not had to grow out all this mess now..
RachiQue said:Phew i knew i wasn't alone on here.
Thanks for responding
Im 100% natural but totally itching to get a relaxer...can't decide between phyto and profectiv...how much is it going to cost me with the phyto??? aarrgghh
Anyway i basically c/o wash three to four times a week with pantene black long hair, air dry and then use pantene oil replacement therapy all over except my scalp and put up in a bun.
Thats all i do i keep it simple because i have just got my crazy pj under control (i have already started buying products for when i relax my hair...i know i know i cant help it!!)
Im hoping to get near waist length (relaxed) hair and then maybe go back to being natural...im past bsl now so im joping to get there by August (cousins wedding)
thanks again....
Uzz
If you just want straight hair for special occasions then I don't reccomend a relaxer, for that you have to want straight hair 24/7 all the time, you can use the right products and irons like a maxiglide or CHI ceramic and get really good stylist fooling results. I'm all natural 3c/4a and when my hair is flat ironed everybody believes it's relaxed but it's better for me b/c my hair looks thicker and has more body than it ever did relaxed-I won't go back to creamy crack.RachiQue said:Hey MEIA
thanks for sharing that info and i know what you mean and thats the reason ive waited ..well in fact become natural cuz i thought no way to all the chemicals in my hair...then i see phyto!
i had a really bad relaxer the salon i used togo to well i white girl did my hair and it was great i didnt have many problems till one day i booked in with her and this other girl was working there and id had a huge amount of growth (six months) so this new girl proceeded to relax my hair she left it on in bits for almost four hours!!! i didnt know any better...she used no lye so i though ih well it aint burning...i know stupid....when she washed it she was rough and she had combed it thru several times too!!
any way about a couple of weeks later my hir started falling out and breaking big time i went back only to find they had fired the girl because she had messed up so many ppls hair.
i got an aplogy and free intensive repair treatment etc but i thought nope never again!
but now im itching to have straight hair again especiallys ince its my cousings wedding in august and i want to leave it out without all the heat etc
thanks girls
Uzz
Love your siggy pic, love the curls.Ayeshia said:3c PresentSome 4a too though
Ayeshia said:3c PresentSome 4a too though
Lucia said:Love your siggy pic, love the curls.
Cheleigh said:In that signature picture (and many other photos I've seen of you), you look more like a 3b (curl diameter alone--not talking texture, which Andre doesn't address at all). You might have some 4a coils, but just not visible from that photo.