Breaking Up Over Braces...

thatscuteright said:
Her getting braces was an act of defiance and one that will lead to deviance later on to other areas. He feels disrespected.
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:perplexed She's lucky he dumped her.

Weirdest reason for a breakup I've ever heard. Either he didn't want to marry her (for some other reason) or he's a controlling jerk who didn't want her to straighten her teeth because perhaps improving her appearance would have made her attractive to more men.
 
He didn't won't her and that gave him an out. He should just be honest because now she is going to think this simple thing changed her " love" life.

And if it really was the braces his simple butt is too dumb to even try to understand.
 
Weezy Jefferson said:
:perplexed She's lucky he dumped her.

Weirdest reason for a breakup I've ever heard. Either he didn't want to marry her (for some other reason) or he's a controlling jerk who didn't want her to straighten her teeth because perhaps improving her appearance would have made her attractive to more men.
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:yep::yep::yep::yep:............
 
That is a control trip if I've ever seen one. Jus showed him that regardless of what he says she has her own mind, which let his butt know that he wasn't in control and ultimately became disinterested. Or, jus lookin for a scapegoat.

He didn't "Unconditionally" love her and she dodged a massive torpedo!
 
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My ex flipped when I got my eyebrows done for the first time (when we were a couple then). He said all the crap about how he thought my eyebrows were perfect before. Sound familiar?...2.5 years later he hit me for the first time.

Your friend's man is either controlling/abusive.

Or he didn't want your friend anymore for some reason and was looking for an out.

She dodged a bullet.

And wait a second....he didn't even see her or the braces yet???? Tell your friend his mind was made up before her announcement.

A friend of mine was dumped by her fiance recently. The wedding invites were sent, the house they're moving to overseas is all ready. And now he has an online dating profile. Men are retarded. they will go the distance and jump ship instead of just being honest. :nono:
 
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Weezy Jefferson said:
:perplexed She's lucky he dumped her.

Weirdest reason for a breakup I've ever heard. Either he didn't want to marry her (for some other reason) or he's a controlling jerk who didn't want her to straighten her teeth because perhaps improving her appearance would have made her attractive to more men.
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First thing that came to my mind.
 
She should thank her lucky stars she dodged that bullet. Defiance? Thats what children do to their parents, not grown folks in a relationship.
 
I call bulls****.

I think he met someone else while he was overseas or he really just didn't want to marry her and this was his out.
 
Also, what if the doctor told her that she needed them for a reason like they were shifting?

A man can love his fiance's nose but if she got in a wreck and needed fixed would he leave her or if she had scars?

This was some douchebaggery and I am glad your friend escaped this maniac.
 
Weezy Jefferson said:
:perplexed She's lucky he dumped her.

Weirdest reason for a breakup I've ever heard. Either he didn't want to marry her (for some other reason) or he's a controlling jerk who didn't want her to straighten her teeth because perhaps improving her appearance would have made her attractive to more men.
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This is exactly what I thought. And the whole act of defiance comment leads me to think he is extremely controlling which is never a good sign. :nono:
 
thatscuteright said:
Her getting braces was an act of defiance and one that will lead to deviance later on to other areas. He feels disrespected.
My friend is stunned and cannot understand, and neither can I....
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Controlling if I've ever seen it. An act of defiance? I thought she was a grown woman and not a child.:rolleyes:
 
He didn't want to marry someone that he can't control.

She should consider herself lucky that he showed his true colors now.
 
He thought if she didn't get braces he would have her and no one else would think she was attractive. She always downplayed her looks when ut came to her smile. He would use it against her later.


Phuck him and his mama.

:lol:

Jk
 
God_Favor said:
Any updates on your friend op? How is she doing? Are they back together?
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No, they skyped and she sent him pictures, but she is still hurt . She wants answers and wants to know the sudden change of heart.
He says he is not ready to talk to her, he needs some time to get used to her new "look".
 
thatscuteright said:
No, they skyped and she sent him pictures, but she is still hurt . She wants answers and wants to know the sudden change of heart.
He says he is not ready to talk to her, he needs some time to get used to her new "look".
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Thanks for update! All I can say is , WOW!
 
i agree with everyone who posted, your friend dodged a bullet. anytime there is something that bothers you about your physical appearance for the most part i think people should fix it. sure your significant other, can love you as we are but what's more important is that we love ourselves and not look to others for validation. this man has control issues.
 
What a Jackarse he is! She should thank her lucky stars she dodged this bullet. I'd b!tch slap him..............................
 
thank the Lord he broke up with her! i am happy for her and she should be as well! i hope they didn't get back together.
 
keyawarren said:
A friend of mine was dumped by her fiance recently. The wedding invites were sent, the house they're moving to overseas is all ready. And now he has an online dating profile. Men are retarded. they will go the distance and jump ship instead of just being honest. :nono:
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If I were her, in place of a wedding I would throw a "Dodged a Bullet" party and move into that house overseas. I may even take it a step further and set up a profile on that same website he's on and list my location overseas and show pictures of me enjoying it. :yep:
 
CurlyMoo said:
If I were her, in place of a wedding I would throw a "Dodged a Bullet" party and move into that house overseas. I may even take it a step further and set up a profile on that same website he's on and list my location overseas and show pictures of me enjoying it. :yep:
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:lachen::lol::lachen:
 
Your friend needs to let him go, why is she skyping and looking for his attention for?

He has her in the palm og his hand. Having her waiting for forgiveness crumbs :rolleyes:
 
I know it's going to be hard for her but she needs to let him go. If they stay together there will be many more incidents like this, and they'll only get worse with time. This jerk does not love her unconditionally. He'll only love her under the condition that she follows his "rules", smh.
 
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