caramelqt3683
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Breaking/Shedding Frustration, Please Help!
Hello all, I'm a new subscriber but long time lurker here so I'll try to give all the info I can to help you help me.
I started my hair journey in Feb. of this year (2013) when I decided once and for all that I WILL have long hair finally. I've never had the time, patience, knowledge to do so in the past so I'm finally trying to get myself on the right track to long, healthy relaxed hair. My hair has never been healthy enough to grow much past shoulder length.
I have been relaxing since I was twelve years old and will continue to do so because I never did like natural hair. I am half Caucasian, half African American so my 4a/3c hair is quite temperamental. I have been learning what my hair needs, likes, hates, etc. through trial and error but its still a work-in progress. My hair feels soft, smooth (most of the time), moisturized (cool to touch), and looks pretty healthy and shiny but is still breaking AND shedding. So I need some advice, please. What am I doing wrong?
~TIA~
My questions are:
1. Is there any way I can finally stop my breakage/shedding? (I know, very common question...)
2. Is it possible to have healthy hair that still has breakage/shedding?
3. Can I ever retain length if my breakage/shedding cannot be stopped?
My Reggie:
Every 8-12 weeks: Relaxer (Deep Protein 1 week before Relaxer and as Needed);
Monthly/As Needed: Clarify
Weekly (Sunday Wash): Shampoo Wash, Light Protein/Moisturizing Conditioner
Weekly Co-Wash (Wed.): Conditioner Wash, ACV/RPC Final Rinse
Daily: M/S, Protective Style (Buns, pony/bantu knot), Wrap Hair in Satin/Silk Scarf at night.
Other Info:
***I've been following the reggies from an older post from Supergirl
***DC under hooded dryer for 45 mins (all washes except after Co-Wash), M/S and Air-Dry after all washes
***Pre-Poo before all washes overnight (I heart Coconut Oil!!!)
***Taking 5K mcg Biotin, 2K mg MSM, Hair/Skin/Nails MultiVitamin Daily
***Upping water intake/eating healthy
***Flat Iron/Blow-Dry on special occasions with heat protection (< twice monthly)
***Dust Split Ends as needed
***Trying to keep my hands out of my hair
Hello all, I'm a new subscriber but long time lurker here so I'll try to give all the info I can to help you help me.
I started my hair journey in Feb. of this year (2013) when I decided once and for all that I WILL have long hair finally. I've never had the time, patience, knowledge to do so in the past so I'm finally trying to get myself on the right track to long, healthy relaxed hair. My hair has never been healthy enough to grow much past shoulder length.
I have been relaxing since I was twelve years old and will continue to do so because I never did like natural hair. I am half Caucasian, half African American so my 4a/3c hair is quite temperamental. I have been learning what my hair needs, likes, hates, etc. through trial and error but its still a work-in progress. My hair feels soft, smooth (most of the time), moisturized (cool to touch), and looks pretty healthy and shiny but is still breaking AND shedding. So I need some advice, please. What am I doing wrong?
~TIA~
My questions are:
1. Is there any way I can finally stop my breakage/shedding? (I know, very common question...)
2. Is it possible to have healthy hair that still has breakage/shedding?
3. Can I ever retain length if my breakage/shedding cannot be stopped?
My Reggie:
Every 8-12 weeks: Relaxer (Deep Protein 1 week before Relaxer and as Needed);
Monthly/As Needed: Clarify
Weekly (Sunday Wash): Shampoo Wash, Light Protein/Moisturizing Conditioner
Weekly Co-Wash (Wed.): Conditioner Wash, ACV/RPC Final Rinse
Daily: M/S, Protective Style (Buns, pony/bantu knot), Wrap Hair in Satin/Silk Scarf at night.
Other Info:
***I've been following the reggies from an older post from Supergirl
***DC under hooded dryer for 45 mins (all washes except after Co-Wash), M/S and Air-Dry after all washes
***Pre-Poo before all washes overnight (I heart Coconut Oil!!!)
***Taking 5K mcg Biotin, 2K mg MSM, Hair/Skin/Nails MultiVitamin Daily
***Upping water intake/eating healthy
***Flat Iron/Blow-Dry on special occasions with heat protection (< twice monthly)
***Dust Split Ends as needed
***Trying to keep my hands out of my hair
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