Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
Okay before anyone jumps down my throat those were not my words. I was having a discussion with a friend of mine and she said this to me because since I have gone natural I have just been wearing braids and weaving my hair. So she asked why I did not just wear it out and honestly it is because 1 it is not long enough yet and 2 it is too hard to manage. When I told her that she said the reason why it is hard to manage is because it is Nappy and black women were meant to wear relaxers and that she would never take hers out. She said the only way a black girl can go natural is if she had naturally good hair, which to her means curly soft hair. Anyways I did not go deeper in the conversion with her cause I was not trying to argue for something so stupid.
The discussion did have me thinking though about myself and others who are natural. I noticed a lot of women who have decided to go natural do end up wearing weaves and braiding their hair up more than they did when they were relaxed. I myself have become a slave to weaves and braids since being natural. I am not sure how I will be once my hair is longer but my texture is 4a and I really cannot see myself dealing with it daily. Though I don’t want a relaxer ever I do think it was easier then dealing with my natural hair but I refuse to go back now.
So what do you ladies think about this. Going natural only to be wearing weaves and braids or just keeping relaxed hair and only having to worry about wash and sets every two weeks. Also this goes for women who go natural only to get a press and curl every week, I don’t get that either. Open for discussion….
The discussion did have me thinking though about myself and others who are natural. I noticed a lot of women who have decided to go natural do end up wearing weaves and braiding their hair up more than they did when they were relaxed. I myself have become a slave to weaves and braids since being natural. I am not sure how I will be once my hair is longer but my texture is 4a and I really cannot see myself dealing with it daily. Though I don’t want a relaxer ever I do think it was easier then dealing with my natural hair but I refuse to go back now.
So what do you ladies think about this. Going natural only to be wearing weaves and braids or just keeping relaxed hair and only having to worry about wash and sets every two weeks. Also this goes for women who go natural only to get a press and curl every week, I don’t get that either. Open for discussion….