well mel, since we are not married yet and don't have any kids, the vasectomy is a definite no-no for us. He would never do it any way and I don't think I'd ever get my tubes tied either, you never know what will happen. Look at my mom, she used to say that I was her first and last child, 16 years later she decided she wanted another baby and had my sister. So you never know if later you'll want something different.