Owest
So Wavy Baby
Today I decided I wanted a cute curly rollerwrap, since it was wash day and it had been like a week since my last wash..BIG MISTAKE #1...My hair had been behaving this week, and looked pretty good. I should have just left my hair alone. I started by doing a conditoning wash. First I did an ACV rinse, and followed it by saturating my real hair and the weave with Lustrasilk's Aloe Vera Cholestrol(for protein). I left it in while I soaped up in the shower(about 5 minutes), then I used Suave M&H. Afterwards I used my leave-in and Surged. I started to detangle the hair and that's when I noticed it. Half of my tracks (I'm wearing a weave this summer) were coming a loose. Foolishly, I figured "no big deal" and started setting my hair...BIG MISTAKE #2...I couldn't even get the rollers to roll all the way to my scalp, they were sooo loose. There were rollers sliding out of my hair, and my face was all sticky from my setting lotion saturated hair touching my face. Finally I got all the rollers to stay by tying them with a sating scarf. Needless to say the whole rollerset was SLOPPY and looked TERRIBLE, but something inside me told me to keep going...BIG MISTAKE #3...I should have just taken out all the rollers and did something else to my hair. After six hours of airdrying, I was fustrated and hot from wearing that big ass scarf all day, so I took it off and decided to check to see how the curls were coming. I went to my mirror and took the only dry roller a loose...to my dismay the weave had dried okay but my real hair was wavy/krinkly and completely seperate from the weave. By that time I was pretty annoyed so I decided to sit under the dryer. I figured that maybe the heat would blend the hair and speed up the process. After sitting under the dryer for about an hour I was aggravated and snappy, I'd had all the heat I could take, so I went again to check on the status of my hair. It was about 75% dry but it had dried the same way it did when I was airdrying it. I think it was because of how sloppily my hair was rolled. Anyway I decided to just blowdry and flat iron my hair straight..BIG MISTAKE #4... I started to blowdry and OUCH, I kept hitting the loose tracks (the tracks had become even looser from me tugging and pulling to keep the rollers in place). It was apparent that the tracks were way too loose to effectively style my hair, so I ended up having to completely redo 3 entire tracks over. IT WAS A PAIN IN THE ASS TO DO. After I finally completed that task, I started the blowdrying and the flat ironing...BIG MISTAKE #5...when I was done and all wrapped up, I realized I had forgotten to use a heat protectant. I'm wondering now.."Exactly how much damage did I just do to my hair??" When I was combing there was tons of hair coming out and I had a lot of tangling from the sloppy rollerset, however I'm not sure if a majority of it was weave or my real hair (I know it was a combination of both). I hope a majority of it was the weave, but only time will tell.
Anyway today my mother brought this to my attention:
I am always touching, washing, moisturizing or restyling my hair. I was thinking about this, and she is RIGHT. I'm always either doing or buying something for my hair. I am HAIR-OBSESSED. I thought by paying more attention to my hair I was helping it, but now I think I maybe hurting it. It does seem as though I am always having to re-style it. Before I started this whole haircare thing, my rollerwraps would last about 2-3 weeks, with MINIMAL maintence (just wrapping it and unwrapping it). I wonder if I am actually HELPING my hair? It seems as if I have been having a lot more bad days then good ones. Does anyone else feel like this??
Anyway today my mother brought this to my attention:
I am always touching, washing, moisturizing or restyling my hair. I was thinking about this, and she is RIGHT. I'm always either doing or buying something for my hair. I am HAIR-OBSESSED. I thought by paying more attention to my hair I was helping it, but now I think I maybe hurting it. It does seem as though I am always having to re-style it. Before I started this whole haircare thing, my rollerwraps would last about 2-3 weeks, with MINIMAL maintence (just wrapping it and unwrapping it). I wonder if I am actually HELPING my hair? It seems as if I have been having a lot more bad days then good ones. Does anyone else feel like this??