This is a good post. I rotate depending on my hair needs. Like you have stated we are overwhelmed with our products but can't depart with any. I use the products based on new growth, smoothness, dryness and softness.
When Im 5-8 weeks post, I use more protein products in my stash to keep my demacration line strong, therefore no breakage. I love my Mizani Thermasmooth Conditioner for this. I also use the Palmers Olive Oil Conditioner it has Kertain in it and leaves my hair really silky smooth.
When my hair is dry, I use my moisturizing products, like V05 moisture milks (strawberries & creme) and ORS Olive Oil creme, along with Komaza Shea butter hair lotion.
When I spot a lil breakage or my hair is muchy I use Apoghee 2 min Reconstructor.
When my hair is is to strong I use a protein free moisturizer. I just got my Hairveda package, and im thankful she has products thats protein free.
However my Paul Mitchel Original Leave in Conditioner is a must. I use this often. I just recently bought the Sally's GVP Version so I can save a few bucks, cause I can not tell a difference.
Also my Vatika Frosting (Hairveda) , I use often as well and can not depart from it. Its something about this stuff I love. I know this stuff has turned my hair around.
Overall I just listen to my hair, and do what it say. Thats the easiest thing to dl.