So sad as this may sound, i dont really have any girlfriends that i can talk to about this (except for you ladies of course)
Here's my dilemma...whenever I do stuff for my bf, i do it because i want to see
him happy, not really because i really need to be doing that particular thing. For example, when i buy him birthday gifts, its because i want to see him happy and smile. Or even when we kiss, it's because i want to see him react to my body (and i told him this by the way, so this isnt manipulation)
The problem is,
when i dont get the reaction i am looking for i get really really sad about it
....am i setting myself up for trouble by allowing my satisfaction in our relationship to be tied to his reactions to things i do?
is there anyone else out there that can relate to this?
i really want to know the truth so please be completely honest