Maybe I've been watching that new Beyonce video (Me, Myself, & I) and that new Ruben Studard video (Sorry 2004), but I am wanting lighter tresses. I love Regan Gomez-Preston's hair in Ruben's video. Do any of you ladies with relaxed hair have blonde, light brown, honey colored tresses? Have you experienced extreme breakage? I have a very good beautician and she uses excellent products, I just want to know what you all's experiences have been like...and if you have any tips/suggestions?