isawstars
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My boyfriend and I broke up for the 3rd (and hopefully final) time. 1st time was my doing, 2nd and 3rd time his... for the same reason-- "You're my best friend, I love being with you, but I'm not in love with you." During this break up we agreed not to contact each other.... Yet he called me the day after, So I told him to stop making this hard and he said he wouldn't bother me again.
I haven't heard from him or seen him in almost 2 weeks now. My best friend's husband is in the same band as my ex... and they are playing a big show next weekend. My initial reaction was, "I'm not going. If I don't have to see him, it'll be easier to heal from this break up." But turns out, all my friends will be attending that show.... even my girlfriends! I refuse to stay home alone because I am trying to avoid him... so I'm thinking the best thing is to just go. But I don't want history to repeat itself. Last time we broke up, we bumped into each other at least 2x a week. After a month, he thought he was still in love with me so we got back together.
Has anyone else dealt with a break up like this? How often did you run into your ex? Did you speak to him or just ignored him? Do you think it took you longer to move on because you saw him regularly?
TIA
oh and ETA: We are in our mid 20s and were together for 1 year and 3 months.... if that helps at all.
I haven't heard from him or seen him in almost 2 weeks now. My best friend's husband is in the same band as my ex... and they are playing a big show next weekend. My initial reaction was, "I'm not going. If I don't have to see him, it'll be easier to heal from this break up." But turns out, all my friends will be attending that show.... even my girlfriends! I refuse to stay home alone because I am trying to avoid him... so I'm thinking the best thing is to just go. But I don't want history to repeat itself. Last time we broke up, we bumped into each other at least 2x a week. After a month, he thought he was still in love with me so we got back together.
Has anyone else dealt with a break up like this? How often did you run into your ex? Did you speak to him or just ignored him? Do you think it took you longer to move on because you saw him regularly?
TIA
oh and ETA: We are in our mid 20s and were together for 1 year and 3 months.... if that helps at all.