Hi everyone, thank you for responding. I am thinking of starting a support group around this. I knew for those of us that are still in these relationships or even those that had to end things, we love the people that have these conditions. It is about understanding the illness better and understanding ourselves and how our loved ones illnesses affect us.
I will work on getting a group together. Those who PMed me, I will PM back and ask if you are ok to share in a group kind of setting.