BlackHairDiva
Well-Known Member
Ladies..I need help /advice..this is too much!!! What should I do now? As some of you know I was living with my mom, Grandmother, bro, sil and nephews. I was exhausted mentally, physically and emotionally. I could barely take care of myself...at ALL! I was too busy taking care of mom and granny. Mom has back problems and granny is blind, bedridden and has dementia. On top of that , I had to wash, feed , change granny..Not easy. Plus, I was the one responsible for the cooking ,cleaning, i did the groceries. I spent 4 years waking up exhausted, being exhausted all day, going to work exhausted and coming back home exhausted...to take care of everyone to a point I had to decide between eating or sleeping. Going to bed at 3 to 4 or 5 am daily. Not to mentioned I did 2 years without working!!! So then I got a crummy part time job that I hate and make to most of it.
I moved out in hope of getting a career back, resting and taking care of myself. I was so happy to get my apartment.
I got a sister in law who is lazy..YES LAZY!! she doesn't clean nor do anything. All she does is eat without control to a point it's race to at food...we can't do groceries cause she lets thing spoil or she eats everything hides food, etc. Milk... urgh... 1 liter plus of milk goes in her tummy per day. I did 3 years without drinking milk..result my teeth are damage...lack of calcium. SHe doesn't work, lies that she goes to school when she is hangin with her friends. She doesn't work. She doesn't educate the kids...results we got a 4 year old nephew who still cannot talk or conversate..Both my nephews ( 4 years old & 1 are still wearing diapers.) she said she was going to stay at home and home school him...of course she then said she will not stay at home cause its too much work.
I'VE HAD IT!!!!
Got a call from mom telling me the sheriff came to the house... My bro got a letter telling him he owes 4000$ or they will take the house. AGAIN!!! this happened earlier this year , now this happened again.
Now I'm being told that I left the house at the last minute, that I could have helped out... I make 600 tops bi-weekly. He makes at least 80,000$. His wife always asks to get money sent to her family abroad, to go shopping. To eat out. He doesn't put his foot down. I feel like i have to give up my dreamand my life to keep eveyone ok and out of trouble. Give up my life meaning, no more going to get an MBA, marriage , etc.... I got mom crying on the phone, my older bro crying as well. All claims nothing ain't right since dad pased away 2005. I can't even be positive with them cause they always beleive in the worst...
I need help...I need a solution...I need to find a way to earn extra money...
I'm applying for jobs and at the same time I'm trying to get my own thing,, e marketing, affiliate marketing and freelance... I had thought about giving freebie trading another go...but i don't have a credit card.
My credit is not hot but i owe about 400$ all together to make it spotless and perfect. But at that point I will be getting the biggest loan imaginable to help everyone out. Then I'm stuck with the damage.
What now?
I'm thinking we might have to sell some stuff, but what...I dont what to do where to turn.. any advice help, etc?
I moved out in hope of getting a career back, resting and taking care of myself. I was so happy to get my apartment.
I got a sister in law who is lazy..YES LAZY!! she doesn't clean nor do anything. All she does is eat without control to a point it's race to at food...we can't do groceries cause she lets thing spoil or she eats everything hides food, etc. Milk... urgh... 1 liter plus of milk goes in her tummy per day. I did 3 years without drinking milk..result my teeth are damage...lack of calcium. SHe doesn't work, lies that she goes to school when she is hangin with her friends. She doesn't work. She doesn't educate the kids...results we got a 4 year old nephew who still cannot talk or conversate..Both my nephews ( 4 years old & 1 are still wearing diapers.) she said she was going to stay at home and home school him...of course she then said she will not stay at home cause its too much work.
I'VE HAD IT!!!!
Got a call from mom telling me the sheriff came to the house... My bro got a letter telling him he owes 4000$ or they will take the house. AGAIN!!! this happened earlier this year , now this happened again.
Now I'm being told that I left the house at the last minute, that I could have helped out... I make 600 tops bi-weekly. He makes at least 80,000$. His wife always asks to get money sent to her family abroad, to go shopping. To eat out. He doesn't put his foot down. I feel like i have to give up my dreamand my life to keep eveyone ok and out of trouble. Give up my life meaning, no more going to get an MBA, marriage , etc.... I got mom crying on the phone, my older bro crying as well. All claims nothing ain't right since dad pased away 2005. I can't even be positive with them cause they always beleive in the worst...
I need help...I need a solution...I need to find a way to earn extra money...
I'm applying for jobs and at the same time I'm trying to get my own thing,, e marketing, affiliate marketing and freelance... I had thought about giving freebie trading another go...but i don't have a credit card.
My credit is not hot but i owe about 400$ all together to make it spotless and perfect. But at that point I will be getting the biggest loan imaginable to help everyone out. Then I'm stuck with the damage.
What now?
I'm thinking we might have to sell some stuff, but what...I dont what to do where to turn.. any advice help, etc?