anxiety fear intuition

[gn1g]

How do you differentiate between, fear from past relationships and intuition?

 

[bella♥tia♥marie]

i would like to know this also... it's hard nowadays... i'm paranoid about EVERYTHING after being done wrong in the past...

 

[ixoyegodisgood]

I don't think its paranoia when you recognize a pattern of behavior. I do think it is paranoia if you take one (minor) bad act or miscommunication and conclude that it is always going to be like this or that he's just like so and so. I think its important not to test anyone. Let things evolve how they evolve and come to your conclusion from there.

 

[tinkat]

In order to know the difference you need to be in touch with your feelings as cliche as that sounds. Intuition is a inner gut feeling, just a knowing about something. Its about learning to trust yourself. Its hard to explain you just know when its its a gut feeling and you know when you are just thinking too hard or being irrational. Someone else may be better at explaining it.

 

[tiara76]

one has to get rid of fear and understand what hurts are about first to be able to tune into themselves and tuning into the self automatically tunes you into other people....we all operate from the same source we all pick up on each other nobody can hide anything, lie to you, get over on you...you will see right thru them literally and feel them vs going off what they are doing or saying externally

your internal feelings just let you know things, they don't cause you to panic and over react, your fears and emotions cause over reaction

I do wish I could come up with the words to explain the difference in more depth, there is a difference

 

[gn1g]

Tiara, how do you get rid of fear?

I suppose you have to trust . . . being hurt is NO FUN!

I think all of my past experiences are doing a number on me in my present relationship. Sometimes I am not sure what's talking anxieties from past experiences or my intuition. So I just try to relax and let go, whatever will happen will happen I guess?

 

[tiara76]

Tiara, how do you get rid of fear?

I suppose you have to trust . . . being hurt is NO FUN!

I think all of my past experiences are doing a number on me in my present relationship. Sometimes I am not sure what's talking anxieties from past experiences or my intuition. So I just try to relax and let go, whatever will happen will happen I guess?

you get rid of fear by facing it

fear isn't real

False
Evidence
Appearing
Real

what exactly are you so afraid of is the question to ask yourself and why??

understanding pain
pain and hurt is not your enemy...its your blessing....it alerts you that something is WRONG and needs to be fixed within you...and only you can fix it....love heals pain...if you subscribe to a belief that GOD is outside of you vs within you...then you may better understand this notion by opening yourself to GOD and surrendering all your pain

fighting, resisting, hiding, denying, running from hurt and pain just means it fights you back, keeps nudging you, chases you and waits for you...loving it heals it..understand your pain and the message it is trying to send to you instead of hating it, judging it and making it out to be the some outside source of negativity that is destroying your life, that mindset is what is destroying your life not the pain....all your hurts are your blocks that stand between you and your own source of love

one of the biggest beliefs people subscribe to is the one that they are unworthy and need to "earn" love..from GOD, from parents, from lovers, from society....so everything that is done is to "get" love....thats why people think love is an action vs an energy and we tend to assign actions and conditions to love as if that is what makes it so...parents do it to kids, friends, lovers, family do it to each other and so many people seem to not
"feel" it and tend to get broke down over "love" vs built up

love isn't anything to get, to earn, to lose, to not deserve

its who you are once you tune into it you tune into life....you connect to everything and everybody

your emotions are simply energy your feelings use to guage your experiences......negative emotions let you know what isn't love...positive ones let you know what is....release the judgements on the negative aspect of life and understand they only exist to enable you to really be able to appreciate and experience in physical form what love and life is really about.....

the old saying...its all love

nothing isn't love in the grand scheme of life