Am I the only one....

CaliiSwagg

CaliiSwagg

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who just isn't interested in dating, a relationship, or dealing with guys in general?:look: Idk...

I'm not opposed to the opportunity if it presents itself, but i'm definitely have no desire to go try and find it.

Anybody else been feeling this way as of late?...:perplexed
 
No you aren't.

I've really not been that motivated to go find someone and then have to do all the work required to upkeep a relationship. Maybe that will turn around at some point, but not at the moment.
 
Prior to meeting my boyfriend I was ok with getting in from work, making dinner from scratch, taking my dog for a walk, then taking a shower which included washing my hair and then popping in a movie as the night settled in. I was okay with this as relationships are so much work. My new boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months and we are already hitting bumps in the road. Take your time and enjoy your singlehood.
 
I've felt like that at times. Sometimes, I'd just rather focus on myself and my goals or I just wasn't ready at that point. Right now, I'm interested but only if I find someone who I think is worth the time and energy and who feels the same way about me.
 
Nothing wrong with doing you and being happy with it. You are still in a relationship its just with yourself and less compromise. LOL Enjoy your singledom.
 
I completely agree with you ladies, I will most definitely enjoy and have no problem being alone at the moment. I appreciate my peace and quiet. I'm sure things will turn around in the future if I meet a really great guy, but until then... Ide rather work and mind my biz:look:.
 
Hmmm, I'm in the middle.:perplexed I'm not entirely happy being SO-less but I don't have the interest or energy to do what it takes to aggressively date and find someone. And it's not like I'm meeting people I'm even interested in. So until he shows up I'll just focus on me.:grin:
 
no you are not the only one. after yet another failed relationship, ive lost all energy and motivation to even be bothered by a man. i'm serious. i just hope if the one does decide to come along that i won't be sour and bitter to recognize and accept him. and if one more of my friends get engaged, i am going to explode. (i'm happy for them really) i think im dealing with something a bit bigger than just not wanting a relationship though...but thats for another thread =)
 
ScorpioBeauty09 said:
Hmmm, I'm in the middle.:perplexed I'm not entirely happy being SO-less but I don't have the interest or energy to do what it takes to aggressively date and find someone. And it's not like I'm meeting people I'm even interested in. So until he shows up I'll just focus on me.:grin:
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This is me too.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
Ifeel like that at times. But lately I've been wanting to be in a relationship. I've been single way to long.:perplexed
 
ScorpioBeauty09 said:
Hmmm, I'm in the middle.:perplexed I'm not entirely happy being SO-less but I don't have the interest or energy to do what it takes to aggressively date and find someone. And it's not like I'm meeting people I'm even interested in. So until he shows up I'll just focus on me.:grin:
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Yep, this is also me.
 
*raiseshand*

Right here. Two years post-divorce, and I think my teenage self had more insight into my true desires than I thought. Utterly NO interest in dating, and even less interest in a relationship, and I will not get married again. I'm enjoying my life more than I have in my entire life - it's all about ME, guilt-free, and with the money to sponsor it.

Shoot. I don't even want a PET.
 
ladysaraii said:
No you aren't.

I've really not been that motivated to go find someone and then have to do all the work required to upkeep a relationship. Maybe that will turn around at some point, but not at the moment.
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I feel the exact same way!!
 
I feel the same way. After my child's father I was done. I am gong to school for my RN. Have never been so happy. And everyday my lil one brightens my day in some way. And then a guy just fell in my lap. And I don't know what to do,lol. So the saying "things come to you when you aren't looking for them" is true.
 
I haven't either. I'm studying for the CPA exam and trying to reach a weight loss goal so I'm not actively looking right now. Sometimes it would be nice to have someone to talk to though.
 
snugglez41685 said:
I feel the same way. After my child's father I was done. I am gong to school for my RN. Have never been so happy. And everyday my lil one brightens my day in some way. And then a guy just fell in my lap. And I don't know what to do,lol. So the saying "things come to you when you aren't looking for them" is true.
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I agree with this. I'm enjoying my daughter and my life and have stopped 'looking'.

Mind you, I hope the guy in @CaliiSwagg 's avitar falls in my lap :look:
 
I'm not ready to meet anyone just yet either, I really cannot be bothered to get to know someone like that just now it takes too much energy, I'm just focusing on me now. I can do all of the girl things and go out when I want without anyone moaning.

When he comes along I may feel different though
 
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