loolalooh
Well-Known Member
if I peace out because he lied about his age?
Background: We've only been dating for a short while. Of the two times I have asked him his age, he has given me the same number (which is close to my own age). However, after we became friends on FB and I noticed his college graduation year, it just doesn't make sense. So I asked at what age did he graduate, and the number he gave me made him several years older than me. His older age is fine by me, but his lying about it is not. I need him to clarify one thing (his graduation year) before I can determine whether he lied for certain. And if he did, I have in mind to peace out. The last time I dated a man who lied about his age, it turned into a relationship full of lies.
Your thoughts? Am I being too hard to throw up the deuces after this lie? or should I just give him a two strikes and you're out rule? (Three is pushing it.)
I'm all about forgiving, but that does not mean I won't guard my heart.
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UPDATE: He's telling the truth. One of my friends confirmed it. Also, apparently, rather than writing the graduation year, he writes the year in which he matriculated. Thanks, ladies. Had he been lying, this would've been me:
Background: We've only been dating for a short while. Of the two times I have asked him his age, he has given me the same number (which is close to my own age). However, after we became friends on FB and I noticed his college graduation year, it just doesn't make sense. So I asked at what age did he graduate, and the number he gave me made him several years older than me. His older age is fine by me, but his lying about it is not. I need him to clarify one thing (his graduation year) before I can determine whether he lied for certain. And if he did, I have in mind to peace out. The last time I dated a man who lied about his age, it turned into a relationship full of lies.
Your thoughts? Am I being too hard to throw up the deuces after this lie? or should I just give him a two strikes and you're out rule? (Three is pushing it.)
I'm all about forgiving, but that does not mean I won't guard my heart.
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UPDATE: He's telling the truth. One of my friends confirmed it. Also, apparently, rather than writing the graduation year, he writes the year in which he matriculated. Thanks, ladies. Had he been lying, this would've been me:
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