Alright Fakers Where You At?

[theRaven]

I want a good explanation as to why...

You fake it during coloring? Was it a one time thing just to get it over with? Help boost morale? What gives?

 

[fatimablush]

i did with my ex hubby.---he just....let's just say that it didn't need to go on and on and on and on and on.

ETA: i don't do that now though!!!! after my divorce i promised myself no more faking it...

 

[movingforward]

i did with my ex hubby.---he just....let's just say that it didn't need to go on and on and on and on and on.

Same with ex-boyfriend. He felt it proved he had stamina.

The sad thing was he had a small paynus, only knew in/out, and I didn't enjoy the experience.

 

[kandake]

I don't fake it. Probably never will. Y'all got these dudes out here thinking they doing something. When I don't finish there's something wrong with me cause he never had any problems with his ex.

 

[Bunnyhaslonghair]

At this point in my life I refuse. If you don't know how to please me you need to know so that you can learn. I'll wait...

 

[theRaven]

Everytime I think about women faking it during coloring, I think of Elaine from Seinfield

 

[cheetarah1980]

A lot of guys don't recognize the difference between a woman having an orgasm and enjoying good coloring.

 

[CaraWalker]

I stopped faking it in my early twenties. why I did fake it:

didnt know how to get there during intercourse
wanted him to stop waiting on me to do it
wanted to signal an end/move on
didnt want to actually do it, might pee
couldnt relax enough to actually do it

I dont need to fake it anymore for any of those reasons. if hes waiting on me ill tell him not to especially if I can tell its hard for him (giggity). guys wont care if you "pee" on them. and if I dont get it the first round he'll usually make sure I do the second. sometimes I have to force it but I prefer not to. now if I dont I just tell him so if hes not sure/asks.

 

[YesToHair!]

SO doesn't like getting there before i do, so when i'm having one of those "tired, have an early morning" nights i fake it so he can let himself get there and we all can have some rest...

 

[awhyley]

A lot of guys don't recognize the difference between a woman having an orgasm and enjoying good coloring.

There should be a separate thread on this, as some dudes are too "goal oriented" in this area.

 

[ElizaBlue]

No. That teaches a man bad habits. If I have to put him in training so be it....class will not be dismissed until he gets a passing score.

 

[irisak]

SO doesn't like getting there before i do, so when i'm having one of those "tired, have an early morning" nights i fake it so he can let himself get there and we all can have some rest...

Yep same here. It's not a constant or regular thing but sometimes a sista needs to go to sleep!

 

[beingofserenity]

I stopped faking it in my early twenties. why I did fake it:

didnt know how to get there during intercourse
wanted him to stop waiting on me to do it
wanted to signal an end/move on
didnt want to actually do it, might pee
couldnt relax enough to actually do it

I dont need to fake it anymore for any of those reasons. if hes waiting on me ill tell him not to especially if I can tell its hard for him (giggity). guys wont care if you "pee" on them. and if I dont get it the first round he'll usually make sure I do the second. sometimes I have to force it but I prefer not to. now if I dont I just tell him so if hes not sure/asks.

What do you mean by pee? You mean squirting? Or actual pee?

 

[PeaceLover]

I fake when I just want to go to sleep. My SO would go all night long and sometimes I'm just not in the mood. He feels like he has to pleasure me and I never turn him down. So when I'm too tired I just fake it.

I mean...the coloring is awesome, but if I'm exhausted a sista just wants to go to sleep.

 

[BGT]

The one and only time I did it was when I was filming a video for a guy and I was on a new medication that affected my ability to orgasm. No matter what I did, I could not cum! So I faked it just to stop it because I started to get sore. He still loved it.

 

[sgold04]

I stopped faking years ago...until a month ago. Cut buddy loves to munch, but last time his beard started irritating me. He won't stop until I arrive, so I faked it. He asked me the next morning if I was faking, and I lied. I'm now a liar AND a faker