Does anyone experience dryness or hardness with aloe gel?? I do and the kind i have is 98% pure w/chamomile and comfrey...the first time i used this it was mixed in with my leave ins and oils for air drying and my hair was very soft, now, everytime i use it, the INSTANT i put the stuff in my hair, it is like a vacuum sucking every drop of moisture out...anyone have any idea as to why or anyone experienced this????