All Arguments Are About The Same Thing

[caribeandiva]

"all arguments are about being validated: Did you hear me? Did you see really see me? Did what I say mean anything to you?" - Oprah

Aha moment for me big time! Thoughts?

 

[movingforward13]

I completely agree.

 

[Feenix]

I would say disrespect and inconsideration.

 

[LovelyRo]

I would say disrespect and inconsideration.

I've felt like someone was being disrespectful and inconsiderate and when I explained why I felt that way, the person understand where I was coming from and apologized... I think it can still boil down to validation. But, it still depends on the situation.

 

[gn1g]

nope disagree. What about arguments over property and tangible things. I could careless of you see or hear me.

 

[movingforward13]

nope disagree. What about arguments over property and tangible things. I could careless of you see or hear me.

Validation that something is yours?

 

[SheenaVee]

 

[caribeandiva]

That was my face too when I heard her say it!

 

[Femmefatal1981]

Nope. Control...fights are about a power struggle.

 

[caribeandiva]

Nope. Control...fights are about a power struggle.

Control is a form of validation. Validating that YOU are right whether to yourself or the other person.

 

[caribeandiva]

Validation that something is yours?

Exactly

 

[MissNina]

Nah. Her level of Petty just ain't where mine is, clearly

 

[caribeandiva]

Nah. Her level of Petty just ain't where mine is, clearly