I'm not natural so i don't know the best solution for you. But being relaxed..i've come to find out that not all products are created equal. first, id suggest searching this board for a product that would produce the results you want. salon products work better for me. 2ndly, i'd suggest for you to air dry your hair (AT LEAST ONCE), without any products in it...just to see what u are working with. I did it a few months back and i was pleasantly surprised how super fast my hair dried and how straight it was. The reason i suggest to do it once, is once you comb it out...then u can assess what your hair needs. For instance if it's tangling...then u need a product with slip. If it's not breaking, then avoid products with protein. If it's dry then u need oils, etc etc. So that is my suggestion as far as how to tackle your issue. I'm not a fan of infusium because it has too much protein to be used as a leave-in, so try something else. I'm also not a fan of airdrying because it makes my relaxed hair very fragile and hard. BUT when i'm not being lazy...my best method of drying is allowing my hair to airdry like 40% without any product in it (takes about 20mins) and then add products, and then blowdry. So that my hair is straight yet fluffy and thick, but my cuticles are sealed and my hair isn't fragile and hard. It works for me... Good luck, your puff looks cute by the way....