Farida
Well-Known Member
I don’t have very many friends. It is my personality and low tolerance for BS. I have several acquaintances but very few people I really consider friends.
One of my BFFs dated a guy about 2 years ago and he was worthless. Grown man, almost 40 still living at home with mommy waiting on him hand and foot. He did not want commitment. And he LOVES him some Trump. That alone in my book is grounds to cut off the dude.
She went out with him a few times two years ago and got fed up with his immaturity and lack of desire to define their relationship.
We roam in mutual circles so we see him often and secretly clown him. We constantly talked about how she dodged a bullet. She has been struggling to meet a decent guy to marry and have kids with. That is her ultimate goal and she is not young enough to waste time on fools.
Tell me why she is now dating him again? She says she hopes he will change but knows he won’t. She is already complaining about him. I am so disappointed and I hate hearing about him. She KNOWS he is trifling...
I honestly don’t want to hear complaints about him anymore. I told her my honest thoughts about what I think of him and that she is making a mistake. And I have refrained from reiterating them.
How do y’all put up with this when your friends/family do this? I just feel my ears get hot and I want to shake someone...or I feel like saying “stop telling me about this trainwreck!”
One of my BFFs dated a guy about 2 years ago and he was worthless. Grown man, almost 40 still living at home with mommy waiting on him hand and foot. He did not want commitment. And he LOVES him some Trump. That alone in my book is grounds to cut off the dude.
She went out with him a few times two years ago and got fed up with his immaturity and lack of desire to define their relationship.
We roam in mutual circles so we see him often and secretly clown him. We constantly talked about how she dodged a bullet. She has been struggling to meet a decent guy to marry and have kids with. That is her ultimate goal and she is not young enough to waste time on fools.
Tell me why she is now dating him again? She says she hopes he will change but knows he won’t. She is already complaining about him. I am so disappointed and I hate hearing about him. She KNOWS he is trifling...
I honestly don’t want to hear complaints about him anymore. I told her my honest thoughts about what I think of him and that she is making a mistake. And I have refrained from reiterating them.
How do y’all put up with this when your friends/family do this? I just feel my ears get hot and I want to shake someone...or I feel like saying “stop telling me about this trainwreck!”