To make a long story short, I dealt w/ this guy for about a couple of months. Once I realized that he was a major player, I started ignoring him & I moved on. NOW a year later, I find out that he’s told his brother, sister and close friends that I was in love w/ him and that he just wanted me for sex (yes we did). His brother and sister of course are telling their close friends and you know how it goes from here…small circle of friends. I haven't even met his relatives..any of them but of course it came back to me thru friends. I am shocked and puzzled. 
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WHY in the heck would a guy you stopped dealing with talk even a year later and HE is the one who didn't want it???erplexed
IT irritates me because I have moved on..yet…even though HE’s the one that said he didn’t want the commitment, he is talking about me until this day…trying to make himself look good in the situation like I was the one obsessed over him.
I know it’s childish, so I chose not to even react and call him although I was highly upset. On the other hand, I WANT to call to let him know that I know he is talking..is it worth it?
erplexedWHY in the heck would a guy you stopped dealing with talk even a year later and HE is the one who didn't want it???
erplexed IT irritates me because I have moved on..yet…even though HE’s the one that said he didn’t want the commitment, he is talking about me until this day…trying to make himself look good in the situation like I was the one obsessed over him.
I know it’s childish, so I chose not to even react and call him although I was highly upset. On the other hand, I WANT to call to let him know that I know he is talking..is it worth it?
Let that ninja keep flapping his lips. I agree with Country gal, tell people his **** was tiny and that he was garbage in the bed.. I wouldn't email him or contact him about it...don't even feed into it. Obviously he's still thinking about you if he still talking about you a YEAR LATER.
