A controlling/insecure person- Would it be logical for them to...

[fluffylocks]

1. Be in competition with you

2. Limit your growth in areas that would make you valuable to other potential SO's or in life? OR wont teach you/tell you things they know when you ask them to

3. In areas where they used to diminish your self-esteem, now they are neutral to you about it

 

[awhyley]

1. Yes

2. Heck yes

3. Only to the point where they know they've broken you; then they're on to your next 'flaw'

Why do you ask?

 

[Duchesse]

Yes to all three. If you're dealing with those issues with a guy, move on to save your self esteem.

 

[Makenzie]

Yes to all three. My ex was like this. Simply miserable.

 

[Almaz]

yes to all 3

RUN FOREST RUNNNN

 

[*5+5]

1. Head to a shoe store

2. Get fitted for a pair of running shoes

3. Buy those shoes

4. Run like hell and never look back

 

[ArrrBeee]

1. Head to a shoe store

2. Get fitted for a pair of running shoes

3. Buy those shoes

4. Run like hell and never look back

What she said!!!!

 

[Spiffy]

Everybody is right here. My thing is why can't these types of guys just stay alone, they shouldn't be dating anyone!

 

[phynestone]

Because they can't be alone and need someone to control. I've noticed they stay away from "strong" women b/c they know those women won't put up with their mess.