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You ain't slick: Don't try to pull my wig off

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jetbeauty09

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Okay, today I have on my Diana Ross wig :gorgeous:. Of course I have to put my lil spin on it and I have my red flower to match my outfit. I always get compliments b/c I literally change my hairstyle almost everyday. So I’m used to getting stopped through out the day to hear how people like it. Personally, I’m not too in love with my wig but hey, whatever floats your boat. It’s a short tapered cut in the back with the swoop in the front and the big buffon (spelling) @ the top.

My rant is that this girl had the nerve to put her greasy (?? lol) fangas all up in my wig! I’m no fool, I know what she was trying to do and she best be glad I was in a good mood this morning. We have a sometimey relationship, sometimes we speak, sometimes we don’t. So that’s why I’m thinking on the other side of fence about it (where did that saying come from?). She came up to me and said, “I just had to come up to you and tell you how much I llooovvveeed (she proceeds to stroke the front bang of it) your hair!”:naughty: To prevent her from doing it (b/c I saw her hands twitching so I knew what she was about to do..lol) I started pressing my own hands all over and pressing down the front, you know, trying to basically claim my own area. She did not care! It was like her hands were telling mine to get lost! I couldn’t believe it. I know I can’t be the only one to feel this way, not just about my hair but especially my WIG!!!!! :boxing:

The next time she comes my way and her hands start to gravitate this way, I’ma tell her, “Sweetie, look but don’t touch please.” Smile and bat my drugstore lashes :rolleyes::brucelee:
 
:ohwell: I would have been putting my hand up in a "please stop, don't go any further," manner before her fingers even reached my hair (wig). I am not one who likes other people touching my hair, especially when I am rocking a wig (rarely) or my clip-on extensions. :look:
 
I work in an HR office and an employee almost pulled mine off! I feel you. she goes..."It looks so real"
 
Girl I know exactly what you mean !:lachen: I just recently started wearing a half wig to work and every time I see this girl that I have a sometimey relationship with she looks like she wants to pull it off:rolleyes:. She's already put her hands in my sew-in (we know thats not coming off) but she better not try anything otherwise we are going to be rollin on the floor:clubu:
 
Why do people feel the need to stick their hands in your hair? Ugh. Next time tell her to please do not touch your hair. Don't smile either. She needs to know you are serious.

I can't stand folks touching my hair. My mother drilled this into my head at an early age lol.
 
LOL you and those smilies are funny! Thank you ! That was so entertaining.

If a co-worker snatched off my wig I would be :evil:
I would :arguing:
Then I would:brucelee:
She'd be :dazed:
Then she woud:cry:
Then Black women around the world would give me a:cup:
As I :vette: to the unemployment office.

:lachen::lachen:
 
Ooooh! Once I had this really cute short cut (Chin length or a little above), and the hair was really healthy so I guess it looked like a weave. This girl put her hands in my hair as if to stroke it, but then started pressing her fingers against my scalp looking for tracks! You ain't slick! I know a nice move to debilitate your attacker by the hand, it will bring them to their knees....just sayin'!
 
That is totally inappropriate behavior. I think that she did do it on purpose. I don't like my hair touched.
 
That is totally inappropriate behavior. I think that she did do it on purpose. I don't like my hair touched.

Exactly! We ain't that cool. I only allow family (meaning my DH & my mom) to touch my hair. Even my kids know you don't touch mommy's hair when she is wearing a wig!!!!:nono: C'mon now!! It was like she couldn't wait to touch it, I couldn't understand WHY she needed to touch it!! Goodness!!
 
She was probably already jealous and was trying to find a way to try to make you look bad... hating a*&% females... You should wear it again or wear another one and walk harder and smile brighter.
 
That is terribly rude. You don't touch a persons hair regardless whether a person thinks its real or not - you don't do it. I would NEVER violate (becuase that's what it is) a persons personal space by touching their hair. A persons hair is so personal. Some folks have absolutely no manners. My ex co-worker touched my curls before (wig) and I was hot - luckily she didn't dig her fingers into my hair but she kind of 'cupped' the curls. Still rude. I would never do that. So I decided at that monment, I will not allow people to do something like that to me that I would never do to them. Not gonna happen again.
 
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Wow! Folks know don't even THINK about putting your hands near my head. Admire from a distance.

I'm not sure what i would do.

That is one of my pet peeves. I'm getting mad typing..lol!
 
I absolutely HATE when people touch my hair, let alone rub their damn hands in it like they r my stylist!!! I had to get in a co-workers a$$ about that. When I first started growing my hair and taking care of it she would walk up to my and kind of brush it with her hand and I would kind of wave her off cuz I didn't want to be rude, she's old enuff to b my mom-i you would think she would know better. But one day this ***** go so bold to put her hand in my head,with my back turned, and proceed to finger part my hair like she was looking for a track!!!! Ya'll...................... I snapped and I don't feel bad about it. I told her if she ever put her hands in my hair again I would molly wop her ***. Needless to say I've never had a problem again! Lol
 
I absolutely HATE when people touch my hair, let alone rub their damn hands in it like they r my stylist!!! I had to get in a co-workers a$$ about that. When I first started growing my hair and taking care of it she would walk up to my and kind of brush it with her hand and I would kind of wave her off cuz I didn't want to be rude, she's old enuff to b my mom-i you would think she would know better. But one day this ***** go so bold to put her hand in my head,with my back turned, and proceed to finger part my hair like she was looking for a track!!!! Ya'll...................... I snapped and I don't feel bad about it. I told her if she ever put her hands in my hair again I would molly wop her ***. Needless to say I've never had a problem again! Lol

Where was I when she did this?!?! Girl, I woulda been right with you on that one! How creepy is she?

This will never happen again...from all the responses, I can see I wasn't going crazy thinking she was slick!
 
I am ok with people making compliments and thats where it stops! I give them the "if you touch it you will lose your hand " look. I am one of those people not so fond of handshakes because I dont know where peoples hands have been so the last thing I want is your dirty hands all up in my fro.
 
Where was I when she did this?!?! Girl, I woulda been right with you on that one! How creepy is she?

This will never happen again...from all the responses, I can see I wasn't going crazy thinking she was slick!

Giiiirrrrrrllll she was about to meet her maker! I needed a hotline number for lhcf girls cuz she was fixin to get it! I just got my perm and rinse today, I dare her to try me again like I forgot what happened last time. Funny thing, she doesn't take care of her hair. I want to tell her so bad, if she takes care of her hair she can play in her own ish!!

But that chic from ur job, I woulda reached out and touched her. She was trying to play games and that's how u get hurt.
 
Giiiirrrrrrllll she was about to meet her maker! I needed a hotline number for lhcf girls cuz she was fixin to get it! I just got my perm and rinse today, I dare her to try me again like I forgot what happened last time. Funny thing, she doesn't take care of her hair. I want to tell her so bad, if she takes care of her hair she can play in her own ish!!

But that chic from ur job, I woulda reached out and touched her. She was trying to play games and that's how u get hurt.

You had me rolling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
Lol its sad cuz I'm so serious lol. I just told my mom about ur situation and she said the same thing I said lol like mother like child
 
Some guy at my class reunion a couple of weeks ago pulled my wig from the back as I was walking past going up stairs non the less I put in reverse cause I would have fell down those stairs before that wig came off.:blush: I don't know if this cat thought it a weave, trying to be slick or what but man if it would moved an inch somebody was going to have to start a collection and bail a sista out. The funny thing is when I turned around he gonna act like he just wanted to dance. Plz. He was going to be dance to the dentist.
 
Some guy at my class reunion a couple of weeks ago pulled my wig from the back as I was walking past going up stairs non the less I put in reverse cause I would have fell down those stairs before that wig came off.:blush: I don't know if this cat thought it a weave, trying to be slick or what but man if it would moved an inch somebody was going to have to start a collection and bail a sista out. The funny thing is when I turned around he gonna act like he just wanted to dance. Plz. He was going to be dance to the dentist.

The nerve! Who taught him how to ask for a dance? Thats the quickest way to lose a toof!
 
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