Jesus was with me

[chebaby]

i almost ALMOST smacked the living dog dookie rat turd s#!t out of my boss today.
because this chick dug her whole hand in my hair and proceeded to scrunch my curls upward. i am a very quiet and somtimes goofy person so i dont think she exspected me to give her the "i will cut you" look. and i meant that sh!t. im so darn angry right now. i dont mind people touching my hair because i know its very soft and lush(i know, i know lol). but she basically ran her ringers through my curls UPWARD to my forhead.
im only 22 and i dont think this chick knows that i wasnt always professional. she betta ask poo poo and nem lol

she lucky she my boss.

 

[La Colocha]

She is very lucky because i would have broke her fingers. You did good che, tell her you do not like to be touched and its not appropriate.

 

[Platinum]

I hate when people want to put their grubby hands in someone's hair without permission. That's so rude.:hardslap:

 

[IDareT'sHair]

she betta ask poo poo and nem lol

And Ray-Ray

 

[caramelma]

I hate b**ches like that lol.

 

[Angelicus]

That is so nasty! I hate that!

 

[SEMO]

I hope you told her (in your best stern, professional voice) to NEVER do that again, and that you don't liked to be touched like that.

Make a note of the incident (date, time, any witness, what was said, done, etc.). Just in case you need it for future reference. You never know.

 

[Almaz]

Oh lord have mercy. WHY why oh why oh why.

 

[ladylibra]

Arg. Tell her quickly too! I know it's akward... but the sooner you make it known that this is inappropriate, the sooner it stops. Otherwise, she will keep disrespecting you like that and one day you will flip your lid, and she will be looking like, "I don't understand, she used to be cool with me touching her hair!"

Trust me, I've been there... not with hair, but other issues...

 

[chebaby]

and you know what really got me?
i work at a front desk and she was pushing my hair up and im like "do you really want me to be unprofessional?"

like i said i dont mind people touching my hair but i figured it was common knowledge that some things are just rude.
and i keep touching my hair now becuase im all paranoid and crap. she got me thinking its all out of place and stuff.

 

[brownbeauty196]

She could have just told you your hair looks nice. I never put my hands through someones hair , I just give a compliment.

 

[naijamerican]

at the title of this thread and your first sentence!

 

[ajoyfuljoy]

sounds like she was doing a weave check!

 

[dachsies_rule!]

Why do i already know this chick wasn't black!

 

[Neith]

sounds like she was doing a weave check!

Yeppers

 

[remilaku]

That was too funny!!

 

[beans4reezy]

I still can't understand why people think nothing of invading your personal space with their nasty hands!