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There's a young lady that works with me and she is always asking me questions about growing her hair. She's relaxed so I've directed her here and tried to answer questions as best I can. However she won't come here and I'm tried of answering her qwuestions. Should I stop?:nono:
 
Since she is relaxed and you are natural....you could say "I'm not sure or IDK :look: since I'm natural but I told you to go to LHCF:yep:....you'll find all your answers there" maybe that will force her to come here :)
 
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There's a young lady that works with me and she is always asking me questions about growing her hair. She's relaxed so I've directed her here and tried to answer questions as best I can. However she won't come here and I'm tried of answering her qwuestions. Should I stop?:nono:
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I know exactly what you're going through. I have a friend who wanted to go natural. I advised her on how to best transition and care for her natural hair. She kept comparing her hair to mine and asking how to get her hair like mine?:ohwell: I'm like hello, what I've been telling you is the same regimen I follow.:spinning: The bottom line is that people want results without putting in the time and effort. I would just make it clear to her that you don't have all the answers and if she wants more information on hair care than she should do her own research.
 
And I've said the I'm natural and you're relaxed thingy to her, but she keeps persisting:nono:. Her sides are just all eat off:nono:
 
I have a friend just like that. LAZY if you ask me!! She always saying, I love your hair, I wish I could do mine like that, how do I get it to grow....

I've directed her to LHCF a couple of times, but her laziness just prevents her from reading and doing what she needs to do. It's much easier to ask me. I'm not answering any more questions. :nono:
 
My bff is like that, i keep telling her to come here and she keeps questioning me. Everytime she asks me something now i give her the eye and she says 'i know, i know, you're going to say i should go read but just tell me!' As was said before, most people just want the easy way out, not willing to put in the work it takes.
 
All of these suggestions are good. Be frank with her, and what ever you choose to say, make sure that that is the last time she will ask you about haircare without any knowledge to offer back. She really should be learning about her own hair, her hairstyles, and different products out there. It's fun, and she's missing out.

Let her walk around with her eaten up edges if she wants to be that lazy. LoL.
 
LiberianGirl said:
I know exactly what you're going through. I have a friend who wanted to go natural. I advised her on how to best transition and care for her natural hair. She kept comparing her hair to mine and asking how to get her hair like mine?:ohwell: I'm like hello, what I've been telling you is the same regimen I follow.:spinning: The bottom line is that people want results without putting in the time and effort. I would just make it clear to her that you don't have all the answers and if she wants more information on hair care than she should do her own research.
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That's what I've noticed too:nono:
 
"Straight talk makes for straight understanding" (Thanks Wendy Williams): Be upfront and tell her that LHCF has all the answers she needs. You cannot or don't want to answer her daily questions.
 
I knew someone like that and finally she said "what's that website again?" I gave her a different site. :look:
 
I constantly have people come up to me, asking about my hair and how they can get their hair long. I give them this website, and they never go to it, saying "I don't have time to read; just tell me what I need to do."

I understand you, OP. The most you can say is "You're missing out! All the info is on the internet," and walk away.
 
OMG, I was just thinking the same thing!! I told my friends about this website and nobody paid me any mind, thinking it was some kind of website trying to sell you something. Now they see my hair flourishing and they're asking me questions like what to use. I cannot just sum it up in one solution and say use this one product or that. It's just too much and I'm still learning myself!!

I refer them here and they don't listen because it's easier to just ask me.:ohwell:
 
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